"he did nothing wrong." ok. well. first off, it obviously must be a deeply tortured and pitiful life. but that's not to say it ain't wrong. were i gay, i believe i'd have the guts to say i was gay, and were i gay, i believe i'd have the guts not to say i'm not gay. it's difficult and complicated, but why would you simply absolve someone from all responsibility for an extremely false deceptive life? i've had months or years where i was drinking secretly. but you know it was actually me doing that, and the damage i did to relationships etc. was my responsibility. being gay in a homophobic society is not a blanket excuse for every fucked-up thing you do. also, just for the hell of it, i'm not wild about the ethics of anonymous sex in public places. i say that shit is fucked up, cause i sorta think of sex as an expression of love or something. that is, i think it's actually wrong to blow dozens of dudes you don't know. but maybe that's just my prejudice or something.

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