i must say that one of the better developments in popular culture over the last few years, from the point of view of an ageing het dude, is that there is a lot more appreciation of the sexiness of women my age. admittedly, it's often kind of gauzy and problematic, as such things tend to be. anyway, not to butter y'all up, but women in their fifties and sixties are often very devastating. plus they know stuff.
have mercy! awww sweetie, painful sex after menopause? let's work on that.